Happy Thanksgiving to all my family and friends. I hope your day is filled with love, peace, joy—and, of course, good food! For those of you who feel a deep sadness, heaviness, or loneliness around this time, I want you to know I hear you.
Thanksgiving was always my favorite holiday as a child. It was the time I spent with my mother’s family, even after she passed away when I was just 8 years old. But it’s also the beginning of a tender and bittersweet season for me, as my mother died shortly after Christmas.
Today would have been my Aunt Laurel’s birthday—my mother’s sister and a second mother to me after my mom passed. She’s no longer with us, but her memory is so alive in my heart. She was a sweet soul by nature, with an infectious belly laugh and the best bear hugs. She loved brushing my long brown hair and made the most incredible Thanksgiving meals.
Lately, I’ve felt her spirit flowing through me, especially while caring for Madelyn. I’ve caught myself doing “huggie wuggies” and “loveys,” with Madelyn just like she used to with me.
My aunt also carried her own deep sadness. When my mother died, a big part of her spirit seemed to go with her. My mom and aunt were so deeply connected.
As I honor Thanksgiving today in my Aunt Laurel’s memory, I’m reminded of the love, resilience, and warmth she brought into my life—even through her own heaviness. Her presence taught me how to hold space for both joy and sorrow, and I carry that with me now.
If this season feels heavy for you, please know you’re not alone. Whether it’s through a shared memory, a comforting word, or simply holding space, I’m here. Don’t hesitate to reach out—I’d love to support you in any way I can.
Wishing you all a Thanksgiving filled with connection, peace, and love.
With much love and gratitude,
For the gift of Thanksgiving, the cherished memories it holds, and the joy of spending this day surrounded by my children, grandchildren, and those I love.
Jennifer
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